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Episodes

298
March 25, 2026

Weathering The Vendor Storm And Forecasting hope

The fastest way to feel crazy as a small business owner is to do “everything right” and still watch people walk by with empty hands. We just got back from the Eastern Maine Sportsman Show at the University of Maine in Orono, and we’re giving you the unfiltered recap: booth cost, hotel, fuel, meals, the sales goal we set, and why landing at about half of what we hoped for still didn’t make the weekend a total loss. We dig into the real-time signals we’re seeing at vendor events, fairs, festivals...
297
March 18, 2026

I Can’t Chase This Dream Without You

Everybody loves the highlight reel of entrepreneurship. The booth photos, the road trips, the “we’re chasing a dream” energy. What people don’t see is who’s back home keeping the whole machine running when one of you leaves and the bills, chores, pets, and a one-year-old tornado don’t pause. My wife joins me to tell the other side of the story: the chaos coordinator life, the extra responsibilities that land on one person’s shoulders, and the surprising ways role reversals can build real respec...
296
March 11, 2026

When The Road Tests You, Relationships Pay You Back

The dust hasn’t settled, and maybe that’s the point. We just wrapped Daytona Bike Week 2026 with a week that threw everything at us—flooded tents, leaky air mattresses, midnight engines, and a sales curve that swung from record pace to near freefall before a late rally. The numbers say we edged past last year; the story says we leveled up in ways a ledger can’t track. We open with the campsite chaos and the mental game it takes to keep showing up when sleep is a rumor. Then we peel back the bus...
295
March 4, 2026

Risk, Resilience, And The Road: Tent Tales From Daytona Bike Week

The engines are loud, the tent is louder. From a canvas floor pooling with rainwater to a sales board we feared wouldn’t budge, our Daytona Bike Week run at the Cabbage Patch starts rough and gets real. We gambled big on a new location—higher rent, bigger crowd, more risk—and immediately collided with delayed shipments, an all-night print sprint, and an opening weekend of rain that drove us to shut early and regroup over pizza and live music with our guy, Daniel Johnson. What happens next is th...
294
Feb. 25, 2026

Who Carries Your Dream When You Hit The Road

Two truths can coexist: headlines can drown out the soul of sport, and honest stories can still cut through the noise. We open with a candid look at how the Olympics should feel—earned pride, shared sacrifice, and a country pulling together—then spotlight the moments that actually delivered. Alysa Liu’s gold, shaped by a father who fled repression for freedom. Team USA hockey honoring the Gaudreau brothers and lifting a grieving family onto the medal stage on the Miracle on Ice anniversary. The ...
293
Feb. 18, 2026

Transgender Violence, Mental Health, And Media Responsibility

Eight people dead within days and two countries, and yet the first casualty was clarity. We open the mic on a hard truth: when mental distress goes unmanaged, when policy favors speed over stability, and when media framing outruns facts, families get left to carry the wreckage. We walk through two fresh tragedies and connect them to earlier cases, highlighting documented histories of instability, prior police calls, and a pattern of warning signs that never turned into effective prevention. We ...
292
Feb. 11, 2026

Woke Games: Our Biggest Games Should Bring Us Together, Not Tear Us Apart

The biggest stages in sports are supposed to pull us together. This week we ask why the Super Bowl halftime and the Olympic spotlight feel more like battlegrounds than bonfires—and what it would take to get the joy back. We start with a straight-up reality check for New England fans: an improbable run deserves pride, even if the ending stung. Then we go deep on the halftime controversy, from a global-growth pitch that never met the moment to language and cultural signals that made families brace...
291
Feb. 4, 2026

Signs, Grit, And Going For It: From Angel Numbers To Daytona

A number on a license plate. The same number at checkout minutes later. That strange echo was the push we needed to move from doubt to a full-send commitment: we’re heading back to Daytona Bike Week for the 85th anniversary, this time posted up at the legendary Cabbage Patch. It’s not luck and it’s not magic. It’s a blend of faith, timing, and the kind of work you only do when the pressure is high and the mission matters. We open up about why America 250 turns 2026 into a once-in-a-generation c...
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Jan. 28, 2026

When You Don’t Have The Answer, Change The Question

Ever feel like you’re doing everything “right” but one email, one comment, or one awkward moment wipes your motivation clean? We’ve been there. Today we flip the script with a simple, powerful playbook: change the question, choose meaning over motivation, and use the 10-10-10 rule to shrink regret and build momentum you can trust. We start with a classic Roddy Piper line and turn it into a mindset tool: when you don’t have the answer, change the question. That shift moves you from rumination to...
289
Jan. 21, 2026

Shedding What No Longer Serves You

Ready for proof that letting go creates room for better? We open the new year by celebrating real momentum—Rising Star growth, marathon listening, and fan-favorite ratings—then move straight into a candid story about alignment. When a “forever job” turned toxic, we made the hard call to leave, and that decision sparked a cascade of healthier choices: a mission-driven remote role in cancer care, a routine that actually supports family life, and a dedicated she shed office to protect focus and san...
288
Jan. 14, 2026

We Grow When We Stop Chasing Things And Start Training Our Thoughts

What if the real upgrade this year isn’t a new purchase, but a new pattern of thinking? We open the door to a raw, relatable conversation about why we obsess over stuff, set punishing deadlines, and then watch our motivation fade while anxiety grows. From a scratched-CD glitch to a stack of old vinyl and a French bulldog cameo, the setup is light—but the message lands heavy: we’ve been valuing things over thoughts, and it’s costing us peace, progress, and purpose. I get personal about the troph...
287
Jan. 7, 2026

Patriotism As A Resolution

New Year, new kind of resolution: what if choosing patriotism—real, responsible, everyday patriotism—could lower the temperature, raise our standards, and bring some pride back into the room? We kick off 2026 by breaking down a high-stakes operation and the bigger story it tells about competence, courage, and common ground. We walk through Operation Absolute Resolve with a focus on what made it extraordinary: months of joint planning, precise timing, interagency coordination, and more than 150 ...
286
Dec. 31, 2025

You Are Not Your Conditions, And Today You Decide What Stays And What Goes

Midnight won’t fix your life, but a decision might. We’re closing the year by doing the uncomfortable work most people avoid: naming what we will leave behind so we can walk lighter, clearer, and truer. Instead of stacking new goals on old baggage, we cut off the dead weight—labels we accepted, habits that stole our time, and stories that made our struggles feel like our names. I share the line that stopped me in my tracks: sometimes you go through something so long you forget who you are. That...
285
Dec. 24, 2025

Turn Holiday Hustle Into Memories

Snow outside, lights low, coffee at night, and a toddler determined to cameo—this Christmas special is equal parts cozy and chaotic. We leaned into it. From goofy elf names to heartfelt family memories, we explore how the holidays feel when traditions shift and real life spills across the wrapping paper. We start with humor—Minty McCandy Cane, Happy Stocking Stuffer, and the legend of Jingle Pickle Pants—then move into the scents and stories that anchor the season: pine on the dashboard, a batt...
284
Dec. 17, 2025

Reflecting And Reclaiming The Season

Time moves quietly, until you realize 2016 is somehow a decade behind you. We lean into that jolt and turn it into a practical tool to calm holiday anxiety: look back ten years, then name the next ten with intention. Along the way, we get honest about the economy’s squeeze, the pressure to be merry, and how reflection can ground you when everything feels loud. We map a real decade—marriage, a home built on family land, a dream job gained and lost, a business born, and the grief that still wakes...
283
Dec. 10, 2025

You’re Not As Far From Your Purpose As You Think You Are

Holidays have a way of turning up the volume on everything—joy, grief, pressure, and hope. This week, we follow a small family errand that became a marker moment: a dad, his daughter, his brother home after 15 years, and their mother, all riding out to find a Christmas gift. In the middle of the drive, a bald eagle swept overhead—an unmistakable nudge that love and legacy keep circling back. That sign connected to a deeper reminder we all need right now: you’re not as far from your purpose as yo...
282
Dec. 3, 2025

A Thanksgiving Reunion, Recovery, And The Weight Of Hope

A snow globe of a day turns into a reunion years in the making as we welcome my brother home and share our first Thanksgiving together in decades. We open about addiction, boundaries, small business stress, and the hope that comes from second chances. • early holiday stress, small business sales push, and marketing noise • seeing Christmas through our daughter’s eyes and finding perspective • family history, addiction, prison time, and grief across years • reunion timeline from halfway house to...
281
Nov. 26, 2025

Grief, Gratitude, And Getting Up

Holidays bring glitter and gravity at the same time. We’re laughing about hot coffee and bulldogs one minute, then staring down the second anniversary of my dad’s passing the next. That’s real life at our place: farm chores, craft fairs, small business hustle, and the quiet question that keeps chasing me—am I still making him proud? We walk through the messy middle. I talk about avoiding my to-do list because I’m afraid of its size, watching the fences Dad and I built sag, and feeling like I do...
280
Nov. 19, 2025

Milestone Met, Spirit Intact

The kind of moment that keeps a dream alive doesn’t always arrive with a banner; sometimes it’s a quiet ping at the register and a lump in your throat. We finally crossed the sales number we set five years ago—through shutdowns, grief, a newborn, and more near-misses than we care to count—and it hit us with a wave of validation bigger than the math. The goal wasn’t about getting rich; it was about proving this American-made lifestyle brand could stand on its own legs and keep serving a community...
279
Nov. 12, 2025

Brick, Mortar, And Feelings: Retail Therapy And Actual Therapy

The holiday rush came roaring back and, for a weekend, the mall felt alive again. We landed a two-week pop-up at the Bangor Mall, solved a tough layout challenge, and ended up with a space that felt like our own shop—clean sightlines, a long counter for checkout, and room for people to browse without bumping shoulders. Pair that with neighbors selling handcrafted American flags and our tees hanging in the windows all week, and we saw what seasonal storefronts can do: bring community into the bra...
278
Nov. 5, 2025

Grace, Gratitude, And Growing Through Grief

A missing laptop charger, a freezing parking lot, and a crowd of costumed kids shouldn’t add up to a breakthrough—but that’s exactly where the weekend took us. What started as a simple pair of charity DJ gigs turned into a lesson on composure, community, and the kind of closure you don’t plan for but desperately need. We kick off with a trunk-or-treat at Arundel Ford a local Ford dealership, where a last-minute tech failure forced a full pivot: rapid setup, a sound check on a dying laptop, and ...
277
Oct. 29, 2025

What If Fear Was Fuel

What if the thing you’re missing is the very thing that could make you unstoppable? We dig into the uncomfortable truth that scarcity can be a strategic advantage and explore how to turn setbacks into a springboard for action, growth, and grit-fueled wins. Pulling from 50 Cent’s The 50th Law, we break down why “every negative situation contains the possibility for something positive,” and then put it to work in real life: using a presale to validate demand and fund production, doubling down on ...
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Oct. 22, 2025

Closure, Faith, And A Family First

Grief doesn’t keep a tidy calendar. After months of waiting, closed doors, and a family pulled in different directions, we finally laid a mother to rest beside her dad and felt the first real breath of relief. The next morning, we did something brand new together: we walked into church as a family, not for ceremony or obligation, but for hope. What unfolded was honest and unscripted—tears in the first song, our toddler dancing through worship, and a message that hit like a key turning in a lock....
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Oct. 15, 2025

Thy Will Be Done; Can Surrender Reshape A Nation?

Grief can flatten you—or forge you. On Charlie Kirk’s first heavenly birthday, we sit with the weight of loss and the power of witness as Erica Kirk accepts the Presidential Medal of Freedom and models a fearless, faith-first path forward. That moment reframed our day and our decisions, pulling a simple prayer—“Thy will be done”—from ink on skin into the center of our work, our words, and our homes. We open up about the tension between honoring a legacy and avoiding the appearance of profit, an...