Episodes
255
May 28, 2025
When Life Forces Change, Growth Follows
What happens when life forces you to confront deep-seated negativity? My wife joins me to share her transformative journey in this powerful episode that examines how removing toxicity creates space for unexpected blessings. After losing her mother to suicide, my wife began evaluating every aspect of her life—relationships, possessions, and most significantly, her increasingly toxic workplace. Despite creating her referral department position from scratch and investing five years with the compan...
254
May 21, 2025
Would You Start If You Knew Where You'd End Up?
Ever find yourself questioning whether the entrepreneurial journey is worth it? That moment when you look at the calendar, realize half the year has passed, and your goals seem further away than ever? You're not alone. After a transformative weekend of back-to-back events kicking off our busy "selly season" (that perfect blend of selling and silly that defines entrepreneurial life), I'm sharing the raw truth about what keeps me going after nearly five years in business. This Memorial Weekend ma...
253
May 14, 2025
Chances Have Consequences: Business Growing Pains
What happens when your business is growing 92% but you're still struggling with doubt, guilt, and anxiety? Welcome to the entrepreneur's paradox. Ever feel like you're being pulled in multiple directions at once? In this revealing solo episode, I dive into the complex emotions that come with balancing new fatherhood, business expansion, and pursuing the American dream on my own terms. After sharing some heartfelt appreciation for my wife's recent vulnerability on the podcast, I explore how our ...
252
May 7, 2025
Finding Freedom: A Daughter's Final Conversation
Alli joins us again to share the conclusion of her healing journey through shamanic Reiki sessions, focusing on finding closure after her biological mother's passing due to addiction. • Appreciating listeners who reached out with support and sharing similar experiences • Describing the experience of loving an addict as a roller coaster of ups and downs • Importance of setting boundaries despite others' opinions about family relationships • Significance of angel numbers, particularly 555 repr...
251
April 30, 2025
Breaking Free: A Journey Through Shamanic Reiki 251
Alli returns to share her healing journey after opening up about her mother's tragic loss to addiction and suicide last week. • Sharing raw, vulnerable stories in real-time speeds up healing and can help others find their own path forward • Multiple listeners reached out after last week's episode to share their own struggles and some even requested to share their stories on the podcast • Alli explains she's "good" because the hard part - the constant worry about her mother - is over, allowing h...
250
April 23, 2025
Loving an Addict: A Daughter's Journey to Healing
The grip of addiction tears through families like a silent hurricane, leaving behind shattered relationships and broken promises. In this raw, vulnerable episode, we dive deep into what it truly means to love someone battling addiction – and the impossible choices that love sometimes demands. Through a daughter's heartbreaking journey growing up with addicted parents, we witness the devastating ripple effects that spread through generations. From enduring physical abuse as a child to protect he...
249
April 16, 2025
Maine's Betrayal of Women; Miss Maine Controversy 249
"Maine continues to cater to transgenders at the expense of women." This powerful statement opens a raw, honest conversation about a growing controversy in Maine's social landscape. Following the state's decisions about transgender policies in women's sports and prisons, attention now turns to the Miss Maine pageant, where the first-ever transgender contestant will compete in the traditionally female competition. The episode features deeply personal insights from a former Miss Maine contestant ...
248
April 9, 2025
Cell Block She: How Maine Lost Its Correctional Funding 248
Maine's transgender policies have cast the state into an unwelcome national spotlight, creating ripple effects that reach from schoolyards to prison cells and ultimately into living rooms of everyday families like mine. The federal government recently pulled $1.5 million in funding from Maine's Department of Corrections over its policy allowing transgender inmates to be housed according to their gender identity rather than biological sex. At the center of this controversy is a biological male w...
247
April 2, 2025
Can Social Media Boost Productivity? 247
I explore whether social media can actually increase productivity, sharing surprising results from a challenge my wife gave me to do TikTok Lives while working. This counterintuitive approach completely transformed my perspective on how social platforms can benefit my business. • My struggle with social media as both necessary for business and a massive distraction • How dopamine addiction creates a cycle of unproductivity and guilt • My wife's challenge to use TikTok Lives while working on hat...
246
March 26, 2025
Benign Myoclonus Of Infancy 246
The moment you notice something isn't right with your child, your entire world shifts on its axis. For us, that moment came when our six-month-old daughter Paisley began experiencing strange head-dropping episodes that would ultimately lead us on an unexpected 72-hour journey through fear, uncertainty, and eventually, profound relief. What started as a routine Friday quickly spiraled into a whirlwind of medical consultations that left us caught between two drastically different opinions. Our tr...
245
March 19, 2025
Counting the Cost: A Bike Week Business Gamble 245
After our Daytona Bike Week adventure, we face the hard truth about whether the financial outcome justified the personal sacrifices made to attend the event. The tension between leaving family behind and achieving business results creates a powerful backdrop for exploring what "success" really means. • Financial results fell short of expectations despite positive relationship-building • Leaving a 5-month-old daughter behind created significant emotional struggle • Being positioned off the main ...
244
March 12, 2025
The Bus, The Brotherhood, and The Big Son of a Bitch 244
After completing Loud Proud American's greatest challenge and biggest risk—attending Daytona Bike Week as a vendor—I reflect on this transformative adventure and the incredible relationships formed along the way. • Giving heartfelt thanks to Brian and Zach Pomerleau who put their lives on hold to help make this dream possible • Driving 26 hours straight in our converted school bus "Large Marge" from Maine to Florida • Navigating the challenges of our vendor location and campground situation at ...
242
March 5, 2025
Balancing Dreams and Family: The Journey to Daytona Bike Week
This episode explores the emotional journey of a new dad preparing to leave his family for Daytona Bike Week, highlighting the balance between pursuing business ambitions and family responsibility. The hosts discuss the financial and emotional complexities of the decision, encouraging listeners to embrace growth through their struggles. • Emotional conflict of leaving family behind • Importance of uncomfortable conversations in personal growth • Financial logistics of the trip to Daytona Bike W...
242
Feb. 26, 2025
Maine Governor Embarrasses The People Of Maine
Maine's current political landscape is under fire as Governor Mills and The Maine Principal association defy federal law. Join us for a candid discussion, we explore how state leadership is failing to represent the interests of its citizens in the ongoing debate about transgender athletes in women's sports and in doing so it is also failing to protect women in sports and even jeopardizing the transgender athlete as well. • Introduction to the struggles facing Maine • Family dinner inspiration l...
241
Feb. 19, 2025
SNL Racism & Government Audits 241
The episode delves into the transformation of comedy, especially focusing on the shift of Saturday Night Live from a beloved pastime to a divisive political commentary. By sharing personal stories of how humor has shaped relationships and identity, we explore the importance of unity in confronting societal challenges. • Discussion of childhood influences and comfort with humor • Personal anecdotes of how comedy facilitated friendships • Critique of the evolution of SNL into a political entity •...
240
Feb. 12, 2025
Navigating Relationships and Modern Dating 240
This episode explores the complexities of love and relationships, emphasizing the importance of honest communication and vulnerability. By addressing uncomfortable truths and offering insights into both romantic connections and self-love, we remind listeners that genuine relationships require effort and authenticity. • Importance of uncomfortable conversations in relationships • Valentine's Day as an opportunity to nurture connections • Personal anecdotes reflecting on relationship struggles an...
239
Feb. 5, 2025
The Downfall to Getting Shit Done 239
This episode dives into the personal struggle of balancing the pressures of getting shit done while grappling with financial, physical, and emotional challenges. The host discusses the impact of the "get shit done" mentality and how it can lead to burnout, financial hardship, and self-criticism, coupled with lessons learned from "Buy Back Your Time" Dan Martell's book about valuing time over tasks. • Exploring the essence of GSD (Getting Shit Done) • The weight of struggles and the potential fo...
238
Jan. 29, 2025
Humble Confidence 238
This episode explores the challenges of maintaining dreams and aspirations in 2025, focusing on the concept of humble confidence. It highlights the importance of embracing vulnerability, learning from mistakes, and reframing failures into lessons to foster personal and community growth. • Discussing the struggle of 2025 and its impact on dreams • Sharing a candid parenting experience • Reflecting on the pressure of New Year’s resolutions • Introducing the ‘fake it till you make it’ dilemma • Def...
237
Jan. 22, 2025
The Golden Age Of America 237
The episode reflects on the historic significance of Trump's inauguration speech, addressing themes of unity, struggle, and growth. It invites listeners to embrace the power of words and the potential for national revival, regardless of political affiliation. • Importance of uncomfortable conversations • Trump's inauguration as a pivotal moment • Key themes explored from the speech • Significance of the speech delivered on MLK Day • Analyzing the speech’s inspirational messages • Historical con...
236
Jan. 15, 2025
Embracing Rejection: Transforming Setbacks into Stepping Stones 236
Rejection is a universal experience that everyone faces, but it doesn't have to define us. By sharing personal stories and practical advice, this episode emphasizes that rejection often leads to growth and resilience, ultimately shaping our paths for the better. • Discusses the nature of rejection and its emotional impact • Highlights the importance of uncomfortable conversations in personal growth • Shares impressive statistics on podcast growth and audience engagement • Recounts personal expe...
235
Jan. 8, 2025
Dunkin' Dilemmas & Using Courage To Make Decisions 235
As we journey through this episode, we also confront some big questions about the future of the podcast. I open up about concerns over declining listenership and the commitment to keep making a difference as long as it resonates with our community. Through my candid reflections, I invite you to connect, share feedback, and help shape the future of our shared journey. These episodes are a testament to the everyday challenges and triumphs we all face, and your support remains the heartbeat of our ...
234
Jan. 1, 2025
2025 Find Your Guiding Word & Live By It 234
The podcast episode revolves around the themes of personal growth as we transition into the new year. We explore the dichotomy between enduring struggles and harnessing them for growth, reflecting on anecdotes from past experiences that emphasize resilience. Inspired by thought-provoking questions, we discuss the importance of setting boundaries, the complexities of parenthood, and choosing guiding words that can empower us for the year ahead. • The difference between choosing to suffer or grow...
233
Dec. 25, 2024
Joy, Jitters and jokes about Shitters 233
Holiday seasons can evoke emotions ranging from joy to anxiety, especially around gift-giving. The core theme centers on navigating uncomfortable conversations and reflections about the essence of giving in a heartfelt and humorous way. • Reflecting on personal experiences of gift anxiety • The importance of uncomfortable conversations during the holidays • Sharing humorous anecdotes about holiday gifting expectations • Discussion on holiday decorations as symbols of connection • Introduction o...
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Dec. 18, 2024
How You Do Anything, Is How You Do Everything 232
Have you ever wondered how the way you approach the smallest tasks reflects your entire life mindset? Let's explore that profound question through the hectic, yet fulfilling lens of balancing holiday preparations, family duties, and career ambitions. On this episode of the Share the Struggle Podcast, we're embracing the chaos of the Christmas season, finding strength in our struggles, and honoring the memories of loved ones we've lost. It's all about turning potential sorrow into a celebration o...